The DNA of Life! Could that help you understand why your Lacking; say in Your Life, Your Business, or your Relationships?
Could the DNA for Business, for Life, for People Help You in Some Way?
Henry Ford did not invent the automobile but he did invent a System that made putting one altogether a snap. He was a brilliant man. He and his Systems pushed out so many vehicles at a reasonable price in a short amount of Time. That he cornered the market in automobile productions.
I have been Looking for quite sometime for a system that could do this for my Business. The One that I am currently bringing to fruition. Just this year I have come to the realization that We will all need a plan to Succeed in Life, Business, and/ or Personal relationships. I know this is not a new concept. Because from an early age People were always asking me; Don so what are you going to do with your self; what do you want to be? I never did come up with that Solution until this year. A few weeks before my 52nd Birth Day.
Don’t get me wrong I tried many things. I dreamed a few here and there, and tried them as well, but they never fully grasped the inner me. The man inside the man. I started actively seeking Master Mind Groups as I said earlier in the beginning of this year 2015.
I wanted to know if what I was trying to build and get going would work and be profitable. I had mention in a prior post that I did what Bob Proctor did and his little trick of writing down what he really believed he wanted to achieve in life. On an index card. Then sticking that card in his pocket and faithfully trying to read it every day as many times a day as needed. Until the dream had initiated itself or came to pass. It only took Bob a few short years before he saw real life changing events taking place within himself, his income, and his relationships. Bob stated that almost immediately he caught himself doing more things each day for no reason at all.
Now I was like many of you out there might have been saying Okay, Okay that will never work. How could it possibly work? So I did it! I wrote out a few things on an index card all the while not really fully believing what it was I was writing to be achievable to begin with I was Hoping.
I tried a few weeks with it in my pocket and did pretty good at reading it daily but not repeatedly. So I took the card out of my pocket and taped it to my computer. I guess I was thinking I couldn’t see the thing enough. So I read the stupid index card daily as I went about my Business several times a day. As I went about my daily task of doing busy work, all the day long. The whole time pretending I was building a business. That would some day Earn me enough Money to retire comfortably. Instead of starving and begging a life from family members.
I paid them what they asked little more when I could but it was never enough and I was in no position to help my children either, They are now in their early twenties and late teens. Being a divorced Father and not being close to them both, physically near to them or relationship wise close emotionally to them anymore. They or we have grown away from each other over the course of my long miserable journey to realization. In which I still proceeded and would probably proceeded forever if I didn’t write out the stuff. That I did on that index card.
Well to make a long story a little shorter I joined the Master Mind group I found on Meetup.com and I also decided to Join Toast Masters as well which I found on MeetUp.com. My very first MeetUp we went over what Our plans were for this year. Mine was to get a Marketing Plan writing Down and a Business Plan written up. Which I did do as quickly as I could. In hopes of meeting an angel investor and having something to show him or her. Another person in the group a little older than my self stated he was going to write out his Life Vision Plan!
He said he never had one and from what he was hearing from others who were much more in the know then I. That it could more then double his income if he did. Hun? I thought I’d better do one of these things too. I couldn’t find much on it at first. On this mysterious Life Vision Plan or a Company vision plan. Yeah there is tons of stuff about a vision plan? So I set out to searching and then I found another MeetUp group that was starting up the year with this topic “Your Life Vision Plan”?
Ta da! A bell rang and the light bulb above my head went off or rather turned on. No not really. But for GOODNESS Sake it must be a sign. So I joined in. But it was a Coffee Meetup Conference Call and this was one of my major reasons for joining Toast Masters I thought to myself just do it to become better at speaking In person or on the phone.
So enter the second month of this year. I’d be turning 52 Feb 4th and I had been working like a fiend. Trying to put all the pieces together. Been to a Coffee Conversations Call, even went in Person to a Coffee Conversations MeetUp in Merrillville at the Star Bucks in front of the Old Radison Star Plaza and did my second meetup with Toast Master’s.
Heck I even joined. Feeling good about myself thinking I’ll do this next Meetup and then I’ll be on my way. So I ‘d take a little break, Boy I was wrong. I wrote about what happened to stop me from taking a break. It’s at most of my Blogs by now and at my LinkedIn Profile postings too.
But I was given a wake up call or so I thought, a little shock and awe never hurts anyone right,… right? But that Morning! Heck! I got up early to make this conference enthused about learning something new from It. But this was Not the call I thought it was. I thought I had Showed Up for the Coffee Conversations Call.
When in fact I had shown up for this Group Main Group. And Their Weekly Meeting to Build Our Business call. The people that I meet twice already. At least three to four of these people. The ones I just the other day meet in person the other day were not there.
So I am there on Time but I didn’t know that I was really on the “Leaders Come to Jesus Meeting”.
To make it worst the leader was mift a bit or it seemed to me that more people didn’t show up. Or at least that was what I became aware of further into the meeting. And here I showed Up being gun ho and ready to go (to participate).
I guess he was trying to make a point because only a few people showed. But they were several that he had invested a year and a few weeks or months into the program already, which; was starting to stall. And I was the one who took the brunt of the leaders indifference about that I guess. I mean I am a nice enough guy and all but if you don’t play nice with I’ll pick up my Toys and Go Home. I get a little defensive until I figure it out or at least I use to think so before the call.
See Mark has an uncanny ability because of a system that he has been part of or developed himself for so long to read people. And to do so very quickly and very easily. And he knew from some of his systems. I gathered. That at an earlier time that I had been consuming every free piece of material at his site. Plus he might of had access to some of the stuff that I filled out for the Coffee Conversations MeetUp group or the recorded calls. He checks them for sure he must to knows what he knows.
Now I don’t like to blow things Up and Out but he way layed me and didn’t even apologize for it or maybe he did but I didn’t hear it. Because of the energy that had picked Up some where in the middle of the call and felt to had gotten ugly towards the end of the call the word Blood sucker was Used I believe.
It was the toughest conversation I have had for a very long time. For some reason it felt personal which it wasn’t ? But It hurt and it was pretty close the the mark. Just a few weeks before hand. And it could of done me great harm. maybe even ended my efforts again, but instead after finishing the call I got a clearer sense of the guy. It would be till I could listen to the call again at least most of it that I would see that 98 percent wasn’t personal. The other 2% I think was some kind of test?
He did something I had not had done to me since my Navy Boot Camp days so, so many years ago. It had upset me enough to bring me near to tears because I have thought these very things about myself quite frequently before hand.
I don’t know but I like to think he was guided to do what he did. Because of my thoughts of relaxing for awhile after this call. Instead I tensed up and started working all the harder at what I was trying to do. Mark’s birthday was two days after mine. Mine was the 4th and his the 6th. He had a cold and sounded down a bit Today. You could tell he was ill and felt a little worn.
I have known a few people with Marks attributes. But I never fully connected with any of them the way I feel that I have with him In some kind of other worldly connection. With him or His vision or the causes that he wishes to peruse or maybe it was just and energy rush.
They kind of parallel my own attributes which I have know about for a long long time. Mark wants to reach the world one person at a time in a fun and exciting way. He wants to stop human trafficking most of all child trafficking. I don’t know how he plans to do this, but I find it very intriguing and cause worthy. I personally want to feed the world instead of handing out food.
I want to use Aquaponics and all the other natural ways of growing food to teach people to end their hunger and disease issues. With natural foods the Food that GOD has provided and has done so abundantly through out the world. Mark talks about the high side. The top level of humanity bringing Business owners and vendors and people tied in with Business, Non nonprofits, churches, and What have you together. “For we can accomplish more together then we ever could alone”
Marks words. I would go the low road if and when I could do what Mark has done and is doing. Bringing specific key elements, people, and systems together; to accomplish a common and worthy goal, dream or cause.
Mark has a few company’s which do provide these systems. Or so I am told that provide Businesses and their owners. A way to reclaim time lost, from work being done by the right people, for the wrong job. When it could be their talents are needed else where within the company.
Has a Vision which will as he believes. Help him end a lot of misery in the world today. The Vision Project is a branch of an ever increasing Fruit Tree (His vision) it offers You a way to save time and money and potentially increase your abilities to earn more time and money. Abundantly while increasing your Knowledge and Wealth as well as that of those around you; exponentially.
I written a short poem for Mark asked if some one might be able to? I do not know if this is what he was thinking but this is what came to me tonight. I dedicated this version of this poem to Mark Boersma a Birth Day gift belated.
It’s a brand new one and as I am a want to be Poet. It will most likely be revised at some point in Time.
Poetry Writes & Other Stuff from Sinbad the Sailor Man Company Logo
The Biggest Challenge WHY Child?
What is your biggest challenge child?
What is it you perceive to achieve?
If You do Not Ask of me with belief
How will I Know that you truly believe?
What are you wishing for Child when you say
But Father Please! I do I do Father No pay
What is your Biggest Challenge Son What do you believe?
Again Child what is your Biggest Challenge?
Is it with My one and Only Begotten Son?
Father I do not Yet understand Why
Cry not My Child Your Ignorance is to be expected!
You My Child were stolen away
Forced to live in a land without Stay
No truth to behold None have you found
Since the day that your feet have hit the ground
A system I have put into Place
There is a Devil who goes about without a face
No trace of him can be found But Confusion abounds whispering
Boarder Guards abound
No Ups No Downs Everything is turned upside Down
Back words thinking all men are sloppy
Babes who wounder about only unjustified tinkers
Child Listen Close to what I have to Say
I wish not to lose any of you
Do not Cry
Unto me the questions are Thus
Child you must ask yourselves Your brothers
Your Sisters and Your Mothers
Your enemy Too!
The neighbor who bumps into you
Please dear Every single one you meet
What is their biggest challenge Son
We have always been up here dear
But You! My Child have just begun
A Thought by Sinbad the Sailor Man